Monday, June 27, 2011

The Begining

1st of all Hi Im Christin Houston! well originally Christin Gonzales but sum wierdo bak in the day (who musta been a sexist) believed when u get married u take ur husbands name...so here i am a Houston now......(sexist bastard). I really would have liked 2 have kept the Gonzales, has alot more of a meaning 2 me then (says sarcastically) Houston! I mean come on my dad (r.i.p) gave me the last name, ya ya ya i know i had a choice, i coulda kept Gonzales but then Bryan, which btw is my husband woulda gotten all butt hurt and well we were in the "newly wed" stage and i didnt wanna do that 2 him, BUT give me the choice now and DAMN-IT id still b a Gonzales!!
Ok so moving on:
I am the 4th daughter of 5 girls, ive got 3 older sisters and 1 younger...poor child still stuck with that crazy women "they" call "MOM" (i'll get 2 that later) ANYWAYS my dad passed away August 16 2009, life completely changed after that (another story i'll get 2 later) <--- gotta keep u wanting 2 read rite?!
Moving On:
I met my Bryan when i was about 9, he was my oldest sister Amys Best friend Steves, friend. He used 2 bring Steve 2 r house all the time, i had the biggest crush on him. i WAS 9 come on, it was the smile when he'd look @ me and giggle when he'd talk 2 me, come 2 think of it as u read on not much changed! haha. so u get it right he was around 4 a long time he was my 1st crush and as time went on it never really went away. I even wrote about him in a diary when i was younger....(where is that diary) anyways where was i...let me bak track real quick and c where i was going with this.............
aww yes THEE day, i was 16 years old and i used 2 go 2 my sister amys house 2 party (dont judge me) and Bryan who BTW will b referred 2 as "shorty" thru alot of this. *giggles* (shorty) haha we havent called him that in years! but ok ok im gettin bak on track......
(partyin @ Amys) this stupid girl who shall remain nameless was talking 2 my sister and she was sayyin how she had just found out she was preggo and was gonna tell shorty it was his (which so was not his) ....well i wanst about 2 let that happen, THAT WAS MY SHORTY!, so i did what any pain in the butt would do, yup thats rite i TOLD SHORTY!. and well he wasnt 2 happy about that, he confronted her and she ran off crying *coughs*(cuz she was a whore) and me and "shorty" sat outside talking about life and all the things we wanted 4 life, turned out we had alot in common! after hours of sitting out under the stars with him and just shooting the shit.....(yes i cuss and i may cuss alot so dont read further if ur offended already!)  he told me 2 pinky promise him something and i leaned forward and told him "OK", he told me 2 pinky promise him the moment i turned 18 id marry him, so i did, we made that pinky promise. so we go inside and my sister refuses 2 let us sleep any where near each other, i slept on the floor with my friend and he slept on the couch, but when she (amy) went 2 bed i cuddled on the couch with him (hehe) but seriously we ONLY cuddled then i went bak on the floor b4 my sister woke up.... KEEP IN MIND I WAS 16! so life goes on rite, im doin my thing hes doin his..o BTW he was living in arizona when we made the promise and i was in cali, so like i said r lives went on and we'd see each other here and there @ Amys house, and 1 nite.............

                                                           Amy was having a "Suprise" party 4 her hubby Mark and i knew "shorty" was gonna b there so i had 2 go, me and him hung out the whole nite, and this nite was r very 1st kiss, it may have involved another girl, but who was keeping track rite?! (no im not a whore) she was my friend and we were all drinking and it just seemed like sumthing fun 2 do @ the time <----stupid me! but anywho i ended up leaving with him and we hung out @ san maritz lodge, in his car listening 2 music and talking then my mom pulled up and got me outta the car and nxt thing i remember i was @ my friends house...apparently i walked there O_o ?? ya sum 1st kiss ha! <-- o wasnt my FIRST 1ST kiss btw, and i dont know if i'll get that far into my life.....maybe :)

so time goes on and i mean i seriously saw him like 2 times a month if that sumtimes, but the crush never went away, i think the older i got and the more forbidden he got the more i wanted 2 b with him! YES forbidden by my sister Amy. "hes 2 old 4 u" "blah blah blah"  (hehe i just looked over @ him and smiled) So onto r 2nd kiss, and b4 i write this im gonna repeat NO I WASNT A HOOCHY!, ok now that we got that out of the way....i had taken my boyfriend @ the time Mikey (poor dude) 2 amys house, i didnt know shorty was gonna b there, well like i said shorty had his life i had mine (^^ hence the boyfriend @ the time) Mikey passed out and me and shorty sat outside talking and hanging out just like we always did, i always enjoyed talking 2 him, although i always made up stories, i guess i wanted 2 sound older...lil did i know those stories would b questioned 1 day while we were married...OOOPS <--stupid girl! so it was getting late and i told him "i better get inside b4 Mikey wakes up and sees how long ive been gone" so he grabs my arm towards him and kisses me...THEE BEST KISS EVER! and i giggled and sat down again, we talked about what r life would b like when we got married and the 16 kids we were gonna have and how we would never go 2 bed mad..o ps i was 17 by this time. so i tell him again "i needa go inside now" and he says and let me add he was slick as HELL "just 1 more kiss girl" so we kissed again, then i went and layed on the couch next 2 my poor stupid boyfriend who BTW was so clueless! and the way i layed me and shorty were able 2 hold hands while sleeping without any1 being able 2 c......Anyways the reason i was @ amys that time was 4 My niece Kaitis Bday in February. well b4 her party ended i ran up 2 shorty gave him a huge hug and a kiss on the cheek and asked him 4 his #, in my head i told myself there was no way i was letting him get away so easy this time............
we talked all the time after that. we talked about his life and my life and all the craziness in between it. o and BTW my whole family calls me Chubby (yes awful i know) so he used 2 call me chubby all the time and i called him shorty, we NEVER knew eachothers real names till October (8 mths since i gave him my #) <---ya apparently we didnt think about it! haha

well October 20th comes and im turning 18! i invited him 2 r traditional Olive Garden Dinner and he drove alllll the way 4rm AZ 2 spend it with me :) we flirted and he drove me bak 2 amys house and i had kaiti sleeping on the couch with me but it still didnt stop us from holding hands while we slept. So now im 18 rite what 2 do now.....nothing he went home and we kept talking on the phone, but........
 a couple days later (8) he asks me "if he paid 4 a ticket if id come and visit him in az" ,i was like heck ya i wasnt doin anything positive with my life y not rite?! so i flew out 2 him, this was the 1st time i was in "Bryans" world. the deal was id come and spend a cpl days with him and id go bak home easy enough rite?! so i land in az and my stomach is in knots and i c him and he jumps out and opens my door and gets my bag 4 me and is the sweetest man ive ever met in my life...he closes my door and gets into the front seat and leans over and gives me a kiss..*giggles* this was the 1st time i wasnt "chubby amys lil sister" and he wasnt "shorty the forbidden fruit" (yes i said fruit shut-up) we met up with his good friend Mikey (no not my Mikey DUH) and hung out...well we slept in the same bed and no we didnt do anything, i think we were both so nervous bout being with each other that we just couldnt even go there. in the morning he went 2 work and i got dressed and walked out 2 meet his mom, 1st thing i see is this lil lady (their a lil family, not midgets!! but short!) sitting on a chair in the kitchen smoking a cigarette and drinking coffee, i walk over with a huge smile on my face and say " hi mom" and she giggles and hugs me tight, she tells me "u know bryan always said he'd never get married unless it was 2 chubby and now i c y" i just kinda laughed it off and we started talking....i got there on a thursday nite, thats why bryan had 2 go 2 work that morning. but that nite we go 2 meet his sister Donna, (u might hear a couple not so nice stories about her in the future) and her family, it was so much fun, i loved those ppl, i fit in so well and his sister tells me "i always told bry he'd marry a girl with lil feet and look ur feet r tiny" hmmmm another "marry story" <----i didnt notice that then but i sure do now! haha ok day 2 gone, day 3 his sister goes MIA and we gotta find her, we end up @ a bar and sum how we ended up partying with her! haha but me and bryan r slow dancing (2 god only  know what song) and he whispers in my ear " how about u dont go home and u stay here and marry me" <---- slick rite!! i told him "yes" we kissed and then we left the bar and went bak 2 his moms,o ya did i mention he lived with his mom, he was helping raise his nefews, his sister Stephanie had passed away and his mom ended up with custody of these 2 boys....sad sad story( but maybe later)
 DAY 4 halloween 2004 we do the whole halloween thing and after its all said and done we sit down with his mom and sister and tell them im not going home, im gonna stay and marry bryan...they were shocked! but they were so excited 4 us..so planning the wedding began!
Day 5 (the day im supposed 2 go home) i call my mom 2 tell her im staying and im gonna marry him and she cried, i was always her favorite, it was always the hardest thing 4 her 2 let me go. but she supported me and said she would b there 4 me just give her the date.......

November 20th 2004 1 month after i turned 18 we got married
and so r journey began.....

2 comments:

  1. A love story...how sweet. Reminds me of that song by Shania Twain..."They said we'd never make it, but just look at us...still together, still going strong....your still the one....' Haha, love it!

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